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Is there a more thankless existence than being a female vtuber fan with a male oshi?
Your oshi throws you under the bus in search of a male audience and disses you for being parasocial, the existing male audience hates you and you can't even defend your oshi without a female vtuber siccing her audience on you. Appealing to the female fantasy is seen as "degrading" while the male fantasy is "the norm".
I hate men so much it's unreal.