>>60346129Not everyone has to have the experience, but dismissing having kids as all downs and no ups is retarded. It's a lot of work, and you won't always make the right choices, but you (and what should be your spouse) try your best to provide and foster a loving home full of growth and positive development to raise a being that can carry on. There's nothing wrong with either choice, it's the knee-jerk fags who prosyletize that need the rope.