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While I'm not defending Haachama's flaky behavior, I can empathize with her. When going to college and working, it is easy to burn out. In my experience, it can make any minor task feel like a chore. If I ever miss a deadline in this state, the feeling of disappointment with myself can make it harder and harder to work up the energy to do the needed tasks. It can easily spiral into a vicious cycle. While for me it normally only lasts for a couple weeks before I get my act together, it seems like Haachama is having a tough time getting out of the cycle. Ironically, this is making me want to protect her more. But the only way to escape this is to find a way to become motivated again. That's something she needs to learn and possibly the hard way. Enabling this behavior will only make it worse.