>>106738982>>106738861I think you are crashing out for no real reason, Anon. No one is forcing chuubas to have kids.
However, most people find great joy and fulfillment in procreating. Not because of the physicality of it but because raising your offspring and mentoring them throughout their lives is a noble goal.
You got the short end of the stick because the negatives outweigh the positives for you.
But these messages are probably from people who want their oshi to experience something that most people find wonderfull. Something that is literally most peoples purpose in life.
I am sorry that biology handed you the short end of the stick, and gave women inherent risks that men can not relate to. But the majority of men are literally willing to die for their wife and kids. And that determination to protect and care for them is their qualification to be a father. I hope that answers your question.