>>38311992Given your (our) extremely limited scope of her life, jumping on this situation now only to go "tut tut you should have known better" is some dogshit human behavior. I'd rather we not feel the need to talk about this at all considering it's off-topic and has no apparent bearing on the things that are, but it just so happens that most of the people who are apparently inexorably driven to bring it up are either short-sighted, narrowminded, schizophrenic, or some combination of the three. Hindsight's 20/20. You rub it in the face of the person despite them not being here for what purpose exactly?