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Shondo, I don't watch you, I don't know your community, but from the sounds of it they are very controlling and you should tard wrangle them like you did Filian, simple as that. You're the one in control, not them, and if they leave you because they're butthurt about your choice, that's on them, not you. If them leaving makes you sad, that sucks, but at least you wouldn't have to deal with that attitude again.