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Can you guys help me write a DM to nyan? I need to ask her something, Im not saying what but lets say its "Is it OK if I do draw this piece of fan-art/do you have any changed you'd like in the finished one". Ive never DMed with her before, so I need an opening line, and I also need to work it in there that I respect her time and dont mean to waste it in a way that doesn't make it seem like my time is worth less than hers since that would devalue my social status in her eyes, and finally after she answers some way to keep the conversation going in a natural way, I do have the in that I can ask her after I finish the art to ask if thats what she had in mind so that might come after that, something that would leave the possibility of future DMs open thats unrelated to the art
so far I have
>open with hi, sorry to bother you
>tell her about the art so its out of the way quick and she sees its a serous DM
>[something about how I dont want to bother her, but im not sure how to word it]
>link to the piece
then when she responds, depending on her tone
>thanks fat bitch, if shes being casual/playful
>thank you, if shes being serious
>tell her ill do the thing she says if gives feedback
>tell her i understand if she says no
if she says yes, then send the changed one back later, this is where I need a final message that would leave it open for future interactions, like asking her to play a game, or watch something. Im looking for something thats related to the piece right now to make it easier to bring up naturally