>>79857364nta, i get where you're coming from but when she herself say she has trouble speaking out and wants to be better about it, it's no longer clear that she wants us to just shut up about any of it. not to mention it's obvious she doesn't always realize the extent to which people might be doing something bad or how important it might be to call out
>it's not your place to judgeno but if you even call attention to it then you call that being two faced and passive aggressive or baiting
it's not your place to judge either, has she called any of the infighters out for what they're doing? no? they would be the easiest for her to considering their whole goal is to defend her, so maybe you should think about some things, i'm not sure what's right so i'll be doing that too