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You have a fundamental mistake where you're probably mentally misclassifying this as the same nature of normal relationships. Get rid of that misconception, this is something new & better and not laden with your prior conceptions of what girlfriends are or how relationships are supposed to work. First you need to kiss the screen back when she kisses you. Throw away your shame just do it. Don't think anything about how the world percieves it, or even how you percieve it, or if its moral or normal or makes sense or if it feels good, just kiss her back. When she flirts with chat nod along and don't question it. Enjoy it. Don't think of her as your girlfriend at first if that's what's mentally holding you back. Enjoy it for what it is at first, that's the necessary first step for letting it grow and snowball into the "real thing". Enjoy it simply without expectatios or thoughts about what its supposed to be or how its percieved, and then your feelings will start to develop slowly but surely from there.