>>53386397See while you might be out there fighting other brrats or doing gym reps, I'll just go to the same climbing gym she goes and chat her up, casually. Talk about approaches to different climbs, cheer her on, that type of stuff. And after a few "dates" like that, invite her out for coffee or something after it. The rest is easy.
You might be the strongest Brrat, but I'm the Brrat that can keep a conversation going.
Paparat would fall all the same way, I'd help him improve the shed, crack a few cold ones with him, be the son he always wished for.
Your move.