>>18180131First of all, don't follow others advices on what "will make you happy", seek what makes you happy and through that spread that happiness and join others, do not seek what might just find you by being who you are.
Second, stop thinking of women as items or objectives, they are people too, you don't have to or seek to posses her/get her, but communicate and create a bond.
Finding a significant other is not something that happens in an instant, it takes time, but do not think about it, don't think it as a goal, just enjoy your time with girls and try to make them enjoy being with you, and that's about it.
