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Who else is lurking here?
I didn't care about Ado properly as a vsinger because of her high status and success but this can change!
She just needs to stream a bit more often and I am sure it can dissipate this feeling of being out of reach.
It can be anything even a gaming or a zatsudan stream.
The solution to her problem is very simple.
She just needs to stop caring.
If she has a negative mindset due to past negative events, she will have the tendency to focus on the negative comments and negative people and attempt to get them to like her, instead of focusing on the good and positive people who like her.
Imagine that 95 people like your song but 5 of them don't and one criticizes you.
The correct answer is to ignore the 5 negative people who don't like you because they want something different, and to focus on the 95 other people who like you.
Those who dislike you won't magically like you more if you spend more effort on them, but the people who already like you will like you more and you will attract more of them if you focus on them.
Also other people's opinion should have no impact on our own happiness.
The question should not be "did they like it?", but "Does it make me happy?"
https://youtu.be/lR6-elnwBmMLook in the mirror every morning and ask this question: If this was my last day on earth would I be doing what I am going to do?
We won't regret someone disliking us, but we will regret letting it negatively impact our happiness.
As for the negative mindset the solution is to revisit her past and to imagine every negative event to release the negative emotions, and then to imagine a more positive alternative to those situations which will become her new subconscious reference for her mindset and happiness baseline.
It's possible she didn't receive unconditional love from her parents too, causing this desire for acceptation.
Toxic parents by Susan Forward may then help.
The solution in that case is to become your own parent and to give yourself this unconditional love. This way you won't be dependent on the outside world for your happiness and will be stronger and happier.
