>>32948155essentialist cringe. yes, a massive amount of your life is out of your control. yes, working hard does not guarantee you success. but if you're not gonna try, and you think you have some essential quality which means you can never be happy, then get it over with and hang yourself. which you won't. because you and i both know that's bullshit.
>>32948215>Thanks for reminding me how much of my life was out of my controlthis is true of everyone who is not born into wealth.
>>32948218you know what i mean.
>>32948325>as someone who loved someone who couldn't love themselvesi've done the same, many times, and it always ends in them either improving, or me having to cut them loose because being around someone like that is unbearable. i'm sure you understand.
