>>12611245I feel you 100%. I worry about these things constantly! I’ll try to catch your stream and hang out you sound like a lovely person!!!
>>12610182I can see the patterns in what you linked. I do feel that I have a good community myself but I have a lot of wonderful people to thank for that. Still it’s not everyone’s cup of tea for sure.
>>12612116I also don’t enjoy having a backlog to go through, especially in my own server. I worry I might miss some pattern that will turn bad if I don’t pay attention.
I’m usually not one for interest-based Discords though, I’m not sure why. I guess I’m just really picky with who I spend my time with so it feels like a bit of a gamble. Probably based subconsciously on how much I struggled with local communities based on my interests. I have a lot of bad stories there haha..
>>12613890I’m glad you’re able to open up more!! It’s good for your mental health to engage with others as long as you keep a healthy distance to online matters, imho.
>>12614273Hahah I agree the VC sound is really annoying! I wish they could get rid of it or at least have the option for the server owner.
Lurkers are good people though, I’m glad you’ve found a way to get a smile.
>>12614570I am always worried that me lurking/not being active in someone’s Discord will make them think I’m so not there for clout or something when the truth is that my social battery is small and I have a job that often needs me to focus on the task at hand. Unless it’s a meeting lmao
