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Day 57
I'm not doing this anymore. It's gone on long enough. I have no idea if tobs actually reads this thread, but I'm sure she gets the rundown occasionally.
I'm disappointed. Nearly two months is plenty of time to take action and address a problem that clearly exists and does not need to. Everyone who pays any attention at all is fully aware of what happened, so there's no real need to hide it. The correct move would have been to leave MSM without much fuss and talk to Meat, Coqui, Olivia, and Callie behind the scenes. There is obviously no kind of obligation to join 3AM at this point, but still being in MSM at this point is a baffling state of affairs.
Coqui did absolutely nothing wrong in airing out dirt on a guy who fucked people over. I completely support her, and while I have no idea if tobs actually took that stream as any kind of attack on her or overreach in general, I assume she doesn't, because I know she's not stupid. Everyone in MSM should have dropped it as soon as possible and moved on, but here we are with tobs still in it and joining other groups on the side in the form of Pipebomb. It's unpleasant. Without mincing words, it's utterly pathetic.
I know that she's better than that, but continually refusing to take the time to sit down and deal with the problem at hand is unfortunately typical behavior from someone so deep in the self-loathing hole that she can't bring herself to do anything except subsist. In reality, no one cares that Seth abused trust to the extent of holding other people accountable for his actions. Anyone who tobs bailed on in order to join his defunct group would welcome her back with open arms, but she lacks the drive to do anything at all except repeat the same day over and over, streaming the same awful games to the same stagnant audience that's grown ever so smaller thanks to this series of events.
I do not have any malice. I never did. I wish her well and want her to succeed, but I want it to be without a cloud hanging overhead. I can't condone this perpetual inaction and can't support someone who so readily moves on from established friends. The best time to do something was in the past, but the second best time is right now. It's not easy to take action, but it is simple. You sit down at a keyboard and type. You make the changes that need to be made to get back to a happier place in life.