>>80194078Netorare literally means to steal, it doesn't have a gender and it's about someone going against the victims' wishes. Not necessarily involves cuckoldry but it can turn into netorase.
https://exhentai.org/g/2713832/225a8c1287/https://exhentai.org/g/2797584/cf9c126612/Netorase is when someone desires to have their partner stolen naturally it doesn't have a gender either. It's cuckoldry but can turn into netorare if the stolen girl or NTRman leave the cuck behind.
https://exhentai.org/g/2973567/7ca83da54e/https://exhentai.org/g/2852433/35b2ed4f71/Netori is variation in netorare. It involves an antagonistic force having their partner stolen. Basically when you self-insert and imagine stealing someone's partner, you are not the one being hurt this time. As you can tell it's josei's favorite. It doesn't have any gender and it doesn't have cuckoldry involved unless the antagonist got fucked up in the head by this.
https://exhentai.org/g/1202909/c61d9bd2f6/https://exhentai.org/g/2510744/c1a4116258/ 