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I am just glad Shondo clued into his behavior and finally got the ick enough to ban, mute and divorce him.
Imagine being in her shoes and giving clear and concise demands to be better for one another in this marriage, and you spent it by infighting, trying to turn her trusted mods against her, poisoning the community and enabling menhera, and pushing just about every boundary you can. All the while, pretending like you are some above-all, do-no-wrong saint.
From her POV and looking back, it literally starts with her seeing him call her a bitch over and over while never once responding to it and then the landslide of other things after. If she were to look at his moderated history, it would be awfully grim.
She essentially watched a regular self-destruct and then continue to only be volatile until needing consecutive bans. And then now? He has only gotten worse.
Just imagine the ick, the disappointment and the trust she must have had to be completely shat on and trampled by him.
And the worst part? Doing all of this to her after her hiatus when she was still vulnerable and recuperating. Disgusting.