>>74750453The retort should have been the self-reflection that never happened. There is a valuable lesson to be learned from this particulas Bat-case.
1) never impose yourself into some group
2) you are not entitled to be a member of the inner circle
If you are super autistic, just take a moment to learn how gangs or motorcycle clubs etc work. The upper management will let you know if they deem you worthy of being part of the gang, not the other way around. If you try to force yourself in... well that's not good. The same principle works in real friend groups but in more subtle way - I mean, friend groups and online communities might not have trials like gangs but each community tend to have their own vibe checks.
If you fail these vibe checks, tough luck, it's time to self-reflect and think about how others might have perceived your actions. And this is the most important part. Just don't think about the whole ordeal from your perspective as that will just make you feel like a victim as you probably don't feel like you did something wrong in the first place. Just try to think why others might have thought that you were in the wrong.
