>>43584466Alright so here are some things you need to do from experience
>1. Be around women you need to get a job where women work, get an outdoorsy hobby like rock climbing, go to bars, anything. just go somewhere where you will see women. ideally it should be somewhere where you could meet a girl with similar hobbies.
For instance i got a maintenance job at a historic site. historic sites are filled with old women, old men, and interning college girls. i ended up meeting my current gf there.
>2. Talk to themthis is a skill like any other. just learn to talk to these women in a way where you wont spill your spaghetti. dont fret about it too much though, its a skill you can easily learn. dont ramble about things that are too autistic, like vtubers and ufos, unless you KNOW she's also into it. knowing how to speak will up your chances 10 fold. it will also make it easier to make friends in general. remember the more you talk the better you'll get at it.
>3. Ask one outthis is objectively the hardest part, but it gets easier the more you do it, and some girls surprisingly like it when someone does it in person. most guys will say shit like "uh why even try she'll never say yes" and then they stay single forever. take risks and keep it simple.
you'll make it brah, always remember that the world is a brighter place than you think it is and most people just want to live a have a nice time.