>>84493163guilt certainly is a factor that adds to the oddness of this penchant, however, I believe the case you describe is more aptly identified as masochism, which happens to a lot of women by misidentifying their vaginal cavity as a "lack" of something, which they associate with a sense of inferiority, which then associates pleasure and intimacy with inferiority and surrender to that which is not hers, a male, the male energy.
sex is instinctively understood as a union, a joining, a dance of both souls to complete each other. masochism is a distortion of this perception in which one of the participants believes itself to be unworthy, and has to place itself below the other.
that is the female psyche