>>99833503 (me)this is also why she defends the mods so much, because, like she said more subtly, it's HER choice things are like this
she doesn't want to do anything because she's scared and anxious about it and she'd basically be having to accept that alllll her regulars are now subject to correction and she's probably terrified at that thought, she can hardly go against 1 regular at a time (i.e. t, q, s (hence the lack of communication, or acceptance if it from her mod team not communicating more what the problematic behavior is))
and of course yes obviously the mods are some of her favorites so that doesn't help either, add on to the fact that a large part of her decisions are influenced, whether she knows it or not, by what the mods discuss- and since they don't give a single fuck about enforcing the rules (she wants this too though cause she can avoid problems) or any kind of standard for behavior then any attempts or complaints about that
like somn does, are just annoying/make her feel bad
and again she likes the mods and they have influence in their mod chat, which makes it worse for people like somn or t because she'd be going against them too or having to correct their policing, and of course she's bought into the "we have lives" excuse for their incompetence (if mods having lives is a problem then get more or better mods)
but again, it's not just about the mods being shitty, they are, but shondo doesn't care and is okay with it because changing that means she has to actually start being a big girl and fighting against basically all of her community and regulars to wrangle their behavior, since she doesn't have a mod that gives a fuck or can do that to the proper standard either she'd have to nag them too/oversee a lot of it for some time
>>99833822literally all of them do that except somn and maybe eomer lol
and that's a really insidious and manipulative way of defending it but idon't wanna get into that cause it's pointless for the reasons stated above
>>99833996surprisingly not me, and also surprisingly accurately clocking the lesser-dereked meanies
