>>53891962You go where the type of like-minded people like you congregate at. That helps, for starters.
But the true and most effective way to get to know people is to become a person who can manage to find common ground and build rapport with any kind of person you desire to. In a natural, non-forced, not-creepy, and fully honest manner.
Most important of all is to keep an open mind and remember appearances can be deceiving, what I mean by that is that most people are "plain" looking but there's much more to them than that. And the people who dress to "stand out" from crowds are the ones who are more one-note.