>>61465044shogger, i was in therapy for 10 years, it literally did nothing for me. they tell you platitudes that you already know if you have an IQ above 80. the help is having a loving wife who loves you unconditionally. shondo doesn't. she will leech off of us as much as she wants and we're not allowed to leave or she'll send bombs in the mail, but we can't ask of anything back because then we're awful schizos who treat her like an emotional labor slave. i don't understand how people can't see how fucked up this dynamic is? she's the one who chose to create this relationship.