>>83170382It's here. This is my choice dw; I'm in full control of this creaky old ship. When I didn't respect myself, that's when I let myself be insecure, afraid, gullible and hurt people as a consequence. I'm not doing that anymore. If I can focus on making others feel special and cared for, then I can respect myself. She deserves it the most. So to want to be a good husband, or a good wife, or a good parent, or even someone that makes delicious food for people to enjoy, there's honor in simple aspirations like that I think.