>>30344195I believe it is way more nuanced than that. It deserves nuance.
Telling a group of statistically lonely people you have had sex once or twice in your life is weird.
For what reason and context is this necessary?
Seriously, anon. Is virginity the most important thing (You) have to offer? To give to another person?
The kneejerk reaction to call people incels for this goes a bit too far in my opinion.
When I hear or read someone discuss sincerely such as you are, I can't tell if this is actually about virginity.
It seems like it's the perception of your oshi being more socially-adept in comparison to yourself.
Even if sex sometimes doesn't come out of navigating a social situation well/being charismatic enough.
