>>105453524>>105453122This is the answer I once got from /h/: ntrfags fetishize emotional pain; they get off on that specific blend of emotional distress that's a mixture of jealousy, despair, lust and self-loathing etc. Netorare (written for the perspective of the cuck getting something stolen from them) is a masochistic thing, just as Netori (perspective for the cucker that does the stealing) is a sadistic thing. You're supposed to self insert in one or the other part depending on whether it's ntr or netori. They are different subsections of the same fetish involving kinds of infidelity. The female characters are incidental in this.
They're masochists at the end of the day, but instead of physical torture they want it mentally.
I don't even know how to classify NTS (netorase) as that is willing cuckoldry and is a whole other form of this paraphilia. There's entire sub variants of this shit as per the attached chart.
I have never liked the the pov of the cuck or the cucker. The scene shifts between the female character getting her back blown out to the non sequitur scenes of the male cuck character sadly fapping on the toilet or something or even their emotional destruction upon catching the FC in flagrante delicto is fucking annoying. The former toilet example and those scenes like it are particularly lazy writing imo, but ntr/ntsfags live for that shit as that ties their fetish into the story, however inelegantly, otherwise it'd just be under the "Cheating" tag rather than specially something "Neto".
What I like to see is the female character succumbing to a lust so powerful that they'll forsake their morals, their family and even True Love (tm) in order to keep feeling those sensations. Bonus points if there's a secondary female character that intentionally leads the main heroine down the path of perdition out of malice. I don't need to see the cuck or their pain, and the cucker can be some faceless stand-in as far as I'm concerned as they are incidental.
Ntr, nts, netori etc., are particularly apt at showcasing this feminine downfall that vanilla doesn't explore. The Corruption tag will also suffice. I want to see the internal struggle as the will of the FC is whittled down by the cock. Because you can't beat the cock, nope, no you can't (nuh uh).