>>60524451to understand the term you have to start with the understanding that, to the "modern woman", she should never be required to improve herself or change herself in any way to be more appealing to other people, because to do is sexism and oppression of the highest order, and that they deserve all the best things in the world (including mates) by simple virtue of their blessed existence (no matter how fat, loud, smelly, etc)
thus, the idea of other women voluntarily changing themselves to be more pleasant and appealing to others (especially men) is heresy of the worst kind