>>14509260Yeah, imagine. That sure would be sad if you hated yourself so much that you felt good being emotionally and physically punished by your lover for trivial reasons. Certainly would be comically depressing if you wanted to experience an abusive relationship because your abuser would have so much control over you that you finally felt like you had a foothold on your uncontrollable life. Imagine being so devolved of self worth that the thought of an abuser feeling you're valuable enough to manipulate makes you feel warm inside. Kinda sad to think about.