>>11053772i don't think it's too forward. i come here specifically to check this thread and don't really look at any other threads (outside stars very occasionally) because it's one of the few places that exists specifically to talk about the male members. i like the girls, too, but not nearly as much as i like the boys so it's nice to have this space where others seem to feel similarly.
other than this i'm on both the jp and en discords but i just don't really like discord. for jp side i mostly use twitter and interact with jp fans there since that's where most of the gachi yume/fu are, and it's fun to watch their real-time reactions to streams, etc.