I'm not in full agreement with
>>36710266 , but I'd like to post this nonetheless.
Nyaru seems hate communicating in Discord and other places because for her its her "place where I do my job", and the only exception to this is /wvt/'s viewercord which she has managed to caterogize as "the place where her friends are".
DM Mightygerm on discord, you'll have to find him in a /here/tuber discord and ask for a invite.
Maybe saying all this is a mistake but whatever. If you really enjoy Nyaru, go for it. Try to interact with people and Nyaru there normally, maybe discuss something she likes.