>>39509215> Unicorns were just a bunch of dudes letting themselves remember how lonely they areand who tell themselves that love at a distance is the best their life can amount to because no one could actually reciprocate their romantic feelings. They tell themselves and everyone who bothers to listen that the issue is outside of their control.
I am very lonely, but I know it's possible to change. I didn't change it so far because I am honestly scared and embarrassed to pursue romantic interests.
But at the very least I do not think so little of myself to call my celibacy involuntary. It's very much within my control to change if I want to. I encourage everyone to love their oshi but to accept that she will always be shared with many, and always have people closer to herself than their biggest fans could ever hope to be.
It's also in your control to stop lying. If you think your life is miserable, do better and change it. There are many lonely people out there who would benefit from your presence. You can have this and your oshi will still love you.
