>>88821311>but if the people don't let themselves be helped they won't change or become fixedand that's why the "don't like it? leave" mentality is the actually healthy and good one
>T, despite seemingly listening, doesn't allow himself to changenah but i know why you might think that
>>88821410stop replying to yourself and your friends, if you want someone who isn't shondo then go find them
it's not on her to make it work for you no matter how entitled you feel, she can't, and she shouldn't considering there's 100s of people who disagree with what you want from her
which is why she needs to be herself and that's why you need to cut your losses if you can't cope or accept her
and making her feel bad about that and taking your problem out on her is evil behavior and has harmed her a lot, it harms others too
i don't expect you guys to care though, a lot of you probably already know this and do it anyway because you want your specific ideal of shondo, not shondo, and as we've seen you're willing to be awful human beings to try to get that
