>>83825391Additionally, how would Nerissa feel if her future husband had the same "if I die I die" loose care for his own life knowing that she loves him and is going to start a family with her. That is a lack of respect for your spouse. It wouldnt feel good for her knowing that he doesnt care about her enough to care about his own life. She would be distraught if he died. The same applies in reverse, he would be distraught if she died.