>>57721867yeah I tried joining the fan discords but most of the active users seem either underage or attentionwhores. making actual friends you can talk to regularly is like a once a year thing for me online, and hasn't happened irl since middle school.
>>57721978yeah of course I'd wanna meet the person irl eventually, but the current dating scene for zoomers/millennials seems entirely like a numbers game of spamming as many women as possible, which doesn't work if you want to take the time to get to know someone before setting up a date.
like it's easy to think you "love" someone based solely on their physical appearance or their dating profile, but until you actually talk to them for a long time and start imagining what a life with them would be like i don't think i'd want to commit to anything physical. there's too many horror stories of men and women being totally different than how they presented themselves when you started dating just to manipulate you, y'know?
