>>75556400There are a lot of firsts they've had in their life that I've never been a part of, and more will happen in the future too. It's been nice to be a part of the ones I can make it to, and I know they appreciate whenever people can be there in whatever capacity they can. I always want to be there for them, but it's just not physically possible all the time. I'm menhera about pretty specific, extremely bautistic things, but it's not this. I'm writing this more for ruffians where this kind of thing might matter more to them, just to tell them it's okay to not be there for every "first" that happens.
It's okay to miss things, and be sad that you did, but you'll still be there for other things later
