>>90611065True. It's a nicer world when people learn to be, but it is hard often. It's why I love people who do it, they have a strength in their empathy, sympathy and humbleness. It takes a lot to be scorned and still want to be good and kind to people.
>>90611150Yeah!
>>90611650I do agree that I don't like people being controlling of their oshi, because if you love them, you should want to respect their autonomy and let them make decisions. That isn't to say you can't shoot them advice when they want it, but let them be. If you don't like something you can always vent here but don't be hostile or antagonistic, consider their position as well as to why they can't say or do certain things. A part of the problem is young fans who don't know better, getting baited by antis who aren't there because they care but because they want to keep tribalism and drama flowing.
>>90611858You're welcome!
