>>24412191>dysphoriaI like girly stuff too and I would dress up in lolita and shit if possible, but I do like women exclusively and I do want a family. What about you? Try to envision what kind of life you want for yourself in like 30 years.
Even if you do like dudes I don't see why you need to change yourself. That beauty standard is for women, trying to achieve it as a male is going to be nigh impossible most of the time and is destructive in my opinion. I agree with this anon
>>24413135 just like I have to live being ugly, you just happened to be male. No matter how much we try, we can't change some things.Try to find a therapist to help you. Actual help, and not merely milk your money. Good luck.