>>1864157Cons may be starting to open up again soon, anon, on a limited scale.
Those kinds of girls are out there. All they need is a guy who has just enough self confidence to try, and a little bit of luck on both ends for compatibility.
Every one of these girls probably went to one. So why not try it out? Go to photoshoots of cosplayers for franchises you're interested in, or panels for things you like. Try to strike up conversation or involve yourself in the communities. You all have a chance, if you reach out and start looking for one.