>>33301349stop assuming you know what other people think of you, let alone that they think lowly of you. you can't see into their minds. all those little things you hate about yourself that you think everyone else can see? they don't. they do not see. or if they do, they barely regard it. they might even find it charming. you don't know. and the more you try to find out by reading into their little messages or how often they chat or whatever, the more you're gonna project your own insecurities onto them.
literally just stop thinking about what they think of you. if they're there, they probably like you. if they say nice things about you, they mean it. and if they don't like you, it's not because they're some masterful judge of character who objectively knows you suck. they're some person, with random person preferences, and maybe a fucking dickhead themselves. just chill.
