>>84915229I literally spent the last week hanging out with some dudes who come from out of state to visit. You sound like an individual who lacks passion, and probably has no hobbies worth sharing. People bond over doing things, and no going to bars and eating at olive garden hardly count as "things." Find some dudes and go cycling, take some funny staged photos or something. Try cooking a complicated dish together, steal their wallet and put pokemon cards in it. You lack whimsy and you lack drive and you lack the makings of a good friend to people who would be a good friend. You are the weak link here, get better.