>>45632429>>45632984What was stated in the other thread seems relevant for both of them in that Layna has issues around that sense of body-shaming and being made to feel unattractive and not to imply It's a negative cope but I could see her taking a Top role in intimacy being something she got into out of wanting to have control over others in an intimate context as a means of working through those insecurities along the lines of
>If I can get you to let me do this too you, then I know you really are interested in me out of something deep and genuine.Again, not to imply that It's a bad coping strategy if I am onto something here because she is respectful about it and one can tell that she would use safe protocol and have empathy towards her partners.
The thing is though, Filian picks up on that and her attraction towards her and evidently appreciates the attention to a degree and has probably thought about it. Yet her own complexes cause this knee-jerk reaction on her part of trying to force Layna into some borderline S&M activities -I could tell that Layna wasn't comfortable with the Shock-collar collab Filian pushed for a little while and the Candy Tier List stream was bordering on feeder/architect play-.
So while they are evidently quite fond of one another and I'm sure that they'll figure things out and at least remain good friends. I feel like they should have some private recognition of and dialogue around the dynamic.
