>>35860943I have embarrassingly low standards
>Provide me with more positive things than negative thingsThis is still impossible for most women to meet. Modern women are basically infants, they don't cook or clean, all they do is whine about whatever drama they heard about that doesn't directly involve them.
On the other hand, vtubers are generally really entertaining, it's a mostly positive experience, and only rarely a negative one. I can have a harem of cute anime girls, and if they irritate me I can just close the tab.
Women don't really have to exceed that "impossibly high standard" but I can see why it makes them insecure. Instead of at least trying, it just ends up with more crying and drama.