>>35752218You gotta realize that for fujos shipping is just about imagining cute and fun fictional scenarios between two guys who have good chemistry(most of the time). I don't hope that my oshi is actually gay or that he's dating the guy I ship him with IRL, that's weird.
Also lots of fujos don't want to fuck guys in the first place and see BL ships as escapism where they can fantasize about guys doing hot things without self inserting 