>>55238889I'm a tensai bud!
But yes from what I've deduced a lot of the fear and pressure comes from the ego of vain men and the strength that they naturally tote around due to the hormones in their bodies. This is why things like shotacon can be very common in certain female spheres. Women know they are in control in these scenarios, a child cannot overpower an adult woman even if she lets him. These fetishes can develop in other ways of course, but it's hard to ignore the connecting factor.
At the end of the day this innate fear is not something that can be fixed, unfortunately, as there will always be a not insignificant number of men who perpetuate these crimes of ego and manipulation. It is merely something both women and men of thinking will have to work around
