>>37032395>There are so many lists and conflicting opinionsYes, thank god. Realizing that is the first step. There is nobody out there to give an easy answer, and if there were it wouldn't be HERE. Maybe you can ask the other femchuubas, but even then you must think for yourself.
>>37026891She didn't call him a groomer where he could see it, she called him a groomer right in front of him, in response to his welcome message. At the time it seemed tongue in cheek, I thought it was funny.