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Some people say that a person's spouse tells you all that you need to know about their politics. For example, if a man married a Japanese immigrant, who comes from a wealthy family, and is breadwinner for the family; then you could infer that he is pro Asian immigration, isn't bothered being linked to the upper-class, and approves of women in the workplace. Of course, everybody is different though. When I was 19, I had my first real girlfriend. Real girlfriend as in we were seeing eachother exclusively and testing whether we were compatible for a lifelong relationship through marriage. She was a short ginger from church. We went out normally at least once a week. I pretty much just tried having fun with it; things like movies, or mini-golf, and out to eat. We both lived on our own in college, so there wasn't any extravagant expectations. Some dates were just like walks in the park, or windowshopping at the mall, or gaming at an arcade, or even playing with puppies at a pet store. Anyways, she died. Not while we were dating, she and I hadn't talked or seen eachother in over a year after we broke up. A mutual friend of our's told me that she was in a car accident, and she was hospitalized briefly but didn't make it. I haven't really been in a relationship that serious since. My mind went into this deep introspective regarding the truth of love and war, and I didn't want a new relationship until I found solace. I believe that everything happens for a reason. And, even in my cynicism, I do believe that men and women should still strive to find a lifelong partner through eros love and marriage. I believe that is what is righteous in the sight of God and ultimately what He wants for the betterment of humanity. Of course, I believe this because of Paul the apostle prescription in 1st Cor: "For it is better to be married than to burn with desire" and "Husband and wife, don't deprive eachother". But, Gawr Gura believes this because she is a Disney adult, and likes fairytale endings, and has empathetic fascination for romance. My parents got divorced when I was 11 and I was beat as a child so I don't live in that world. Perhaps, my main curiosity lies in the concept that, how even in her empathy she does still seem to have standards. Despite the abundance of men who fantasize about romancing her everyday, she rejects them all and leaves them heartbroken. I'm not saying it is a bad thing but I have come to a breaking point in my narrative. I want to know more about Gawr Gura not only for my own ego and personal intellectual stimulation, but genuinely just what the line of logic is for a romantic fairytale ending.
