>>73011483>Have no issues with trans people as individuals, in fact I have a number of trans acquaintances>Also recognize that trans people tend to be gravity wells of drama and demand you treat them with incomprehensible kid gloves or they'll try fiercely to turn everybody you love against you the instant they have an in I really don't want to be a transphobe, and I'd really rather not have to look at the world this way, but my experience with having close trans friends is that their world takes precedent over the world of everybody around them, they make no effort to fit into the worlds they enter in, and any and all push back they receive is registered as transphobic bigotry no matter the context. It extends into my tubing, where I've had to ghost two trans chuubas because I already know that simply being within reach is dangerous for the future.
