>>8535212People forget too that Cover is, in it's own words is an idol project.
They actively, and passively encourage parasocial relationships while not discouraging certain behaviour (some do, but few holos).
Look up some seiyuu apology vids, they don't apologise for having partners, but for not telling fans.
Faggots can claim whatever they like, but if you are investing so much time into a girl and her interests, fears, etc, you care about her.
Why is it so difficult to either go full in, ala Lamy, or just not join an idol company.