>>68451288I mean, I don't think that's necessarily true. It's just that males who exude self-assurance and high levels of egotism are usually predators and assholes.
People like Sonny or Vanta who show self-awareness and are willing to appreciate jokes at their expense and not get triggered are usually good people. Men who can maintain positive relationships and don't just see others as a means to getting what they want, who are willing to play supporting roles etc, are what you should value. Guys who take themselves way too seriously are always assholes.
