>>93961535You have to realize this is an issue of misogyny, not misandry.
Your existence is deemed to taint female vtubers, who are expected to act pure and virginal. Men lose interest in women when they are determined to have men in their lives, imagined or real. Nobody actually cares if a vtuber is exposed as a sex pest because nobody really cares if a woman has been victimized by a man. When Aster was exposed as one, for example, the conversation quickly became dominated by people shitting on Twisty for her race or actions or affiliation with Nijisanji. And when Luca was exposed as one people tore themselves apart trying to find discrepancies in Raziel's statement because the idea of believing women about anything vexes them.
"Sex pest" is just a buzzword that distinguishes you as sexual competition. Most of the time people don't actually believe you are one, and even if they do they don't care that much, because their focus is on the women you may or may not associate with.
You are hated because women are hated, and there's nothing you can do about it short of making a bunch of lonely virgin males think it's okay for women to have partners and sex while taking their hard earned money from you. You're just caught in the crossfires of a much bigger issue.
You can still enjoy vtubing of course, but you have to let go of the idea of earning the respect of the male audience any time soon, because both pandering to the female audience (in itself hated) and existing as implicit sexual competition is a surefire recipe to make the average male vtuber fan resent you.